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Bret McCoy

Bret McCoy, LCSW

Therapist · Wyoming · 6+ years of experience

Practical, respectful support for life transitions

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • LGBT concerns
  • Life changes

About Bret

Bret McCoy is a licensed clinical social worker who aims to help people navigate stress, anxiety, depression, and big life changes. He has six years of experience and works from a straightforward, respectful approach. Bret emphasizes listening first and shaping sessions around each person’s needs.

He often helps people facing relationship strain, questions about identity within LGBTQ contexts, and the emotional fallout after separation or other transitions. He also supports people dealing with issues such as abandonment, attachment concerns, body image, codependency, and communication problems. Conversations are paced to what the person can manage in the moment.

Bret focuses on practical ways to manage symptoms and cope day to day. He tailors the dialogue and the plan to each person instead of using a one-size-fits-all method. Sessions include checking what is working and adjusting the approach as needed.

He describes therapy as a collaborative process that asks for honest feedback and regular review of goals. He aims to create a respectful and compassionate space where people can talk through difficult decisions and regain a sense of direction.

To start, he asks people to share what brought them to therapy and what they hope to change. From there he works with them to set small, achievable steps and track progress over time.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

Wyoming

Languages

English

How evidence-based techniques translate to online care

Evidence-based therapeutic techniques often include approaches that focus on changing unhelpful thinking and on improving day-to-day coping. For example, a cognitive-style approach looks at patterns of thought and gently challenges beliefs that lead to more worry or low mood; it helps people build more helpful thinking habits that reduce anxiety and depression. Another common technique teaches concrete coping skills like breath work, grounding, and structured problem-solving to manage stress and strong emotions in the moment.

Finding the best approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, try methods that match those goals, and adjust based on what is helpful. This is a collaborative process where feedback shapes the plan.

Confirm the current session options before booking so you know what formats are offered. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce time spent traveling, and allow for shorter check-ins when schedules call for them. It can also make it simpler to maintain continuity of care during life transitions, while the therapist and client work together to find the most effective approach.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Bret commonly address?

Bret works with stress, anxiety, depression, and coping with life changes. He also addresses relationship strain and a range of related issues such as abandonment and attachment concerns.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He takes a direct, collaborative approach that starts with listening and then tailoring sessions to individual needs. Sessions focus on practical steps and regular review of progress.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has six years of professional work experience in clinical settings. That experience informs his focus on helping people manage day-to-day symptoms and life transitions.

What credentials and region does he practice in?

He holds the credential LCSW and is licensed in Wyoming. His practice is listed as based in Wyoming.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the country work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What steps should I take to begin therapy?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to therapist availability.

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