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Constantino Costi

Constantino Costi, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 8+ years of experience

Warm, practical counselling for midlife challenges

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  • Warm empathic support
  • Practical mindfulness tools
  • Humanistic integrative

About Constantino

Constantino Costi offers a calm, respectful space for people feeling stuck or uncertain. He welcomes honest conversation and aims to reduce shame or judgement. If life feels heavy or confusing, he helps people talk it through step by step.

He describes a warm, empathetic style that focuses on the relationship between counsellor and client. That relationship is the starting point for exploring thoughts, feelings and reactions at a pace that feels safe. Mindfulness and coaching ideas are used alongside conversation to try new ways of responding to difficulties.

Constantino trained in humanistic integrative approaches and has worked in private practice for eight years. He also has experience with a mental health charity where he supported short-term work using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, commonly called CBT. This experience informs how he plans sessions and sets realistic goals.

People often come for help with anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, trauma and low self-esteem, and he lists a wider range of concerns he has supported. He invites clients to look at past patterns, the present moment, and small steps that might change how they cope going forward.

Sessions aim to be practical and grounded. Constantino emphasises listening first, then helping people try different approaches to find what fits. He works with both people new to counselling and those who have previous experience.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then choose actions that match their values. It can help with anxiety, low mood and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them with practical behavioural experiments to reduce symptoms like worry and avoidance. Attachment-Based Therapy attends to patterns formed in close relationships and how these patterns affect current reactions and intimacy issues.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs and then suggest which methods to try. Clients and therapist make those decisions together, and approaches can be adjusted as therapy progresses.

If you are considering online sessions, please confirm the session formats before booking as the profile does not list specific options. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Registered or accredited professionals often use the same therapeutic techniques online as in person, with adaptations so exercises and homework suit remote meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor address?

This counsellor supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addiction and related issues. He also lists a broad range of concerns such as self-esteem, trauma, relationship difficulties and coping with life changes.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He adopts a warm, empathic and client-centred way of working that prioritises the counselling relationship. Mindfulness, coaching techniques and practical conversation are used alongside therapy to try new ways of coping.

What is his background and experience?

He has eight years in private practice and previous experience working for a mental health charity. That charity work included short-term CBT-informed support within IAPT-style services.

What credentials does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the BACP, which is listed as his credential. He practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

He accepts international clients according to the profile details provided.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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