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Dr. Deborah Wieland

Dr. Deborah Wieland, LMFT

Therapist · California · 10+ years of experience

Practical, collaborative care for midlife transitions

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  • Attachment focused
  • Goal oriented
  • Mindfulness informed

About Deborah

Dr. Deborah Wieland is a California licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with ten years of clinical experience. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger, depression, and major life changes. She also supports those dealing with addiction, relationship and family concerns, grief, self-esteem struggles, and career questions. Her approach begins by listening to each person's story and strengths. She uses attachment-based and client-centered methods to build a trusting working relationship. She also draws on cognitive behavioral and mindfulness techniques to address unhelpful thoughts and develop clearer coping skills. In session she focuses on practical steps people can try between visits. That can include simple mindfulness practices, experimenting with new communication habits, or testing small behavioral changes aimed at improving mood or reducing anger. She works collaboratively to set realistic goals and track progress over time. She pays attention to how past relationships shape current patterns. That lens can help with abandonment, attachment issues, codependency, and blended family dynamics. She also brings experience supporting people coping with divorce, domestic violence aftermath, substance concerns, and first-responder stress. Dr. Wieland invites people to take the first step and complete a short matching questionnaire. From there clients schedule sessions based on availability and the subscription model the practice uses. She communicates in English and sees clients in California as an LMFT.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sexual assault and abuseWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online work

Attachment-based work emphasizes how early relationships shape current patterns; online sessions use conversation and reflective exercises to identify those patterns and try new ways of relating. Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and collaborating - the therapist follows each person's lead and offers support tailored to their goals. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) targets unhelpful thoughts and behaviors through concrete exercises and practice, which can be assigned and reviewed between sessions.

Finding the right approach is treated as a team effort. The therapist will discuss your needs, goals, and preferences and decide together which combination of methods to try. Over the first weeks, the plan can be adjusted based on what feels most helpful and workable for you.

Please confirm current session options before booking, since specific formats are not listed in the biography. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life - it can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins on hectic days, and let people attend from a wider range of locations. It also supports consistent progress by making scheduling more flexible and practical for day-to-day commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger, depression, coping with life changes, addictions, relationship and family challenges, grief, intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, career matters, and related concerns including abandonment and attachment issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is collaborative and practical. She listens first, then uses attachment-based and client-centered techniques alongside CBT and mindfulness to set achievable steps and build skills.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of professional experience working with people on a range of stress, mood, trauma, addiction, and relationship issues.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT, licensed in California and practices there.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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