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Ellen Shafer-Lind

Ellen Shafer-Lind, LIMHP

Therapist · Nebraska · 36+ years of experience

Compassionate midlife and life-change counselor

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  • Practical coping skills
  • Goal-focused work
  • Years of experience

About Ellen

Ellen Shafer-Lind is a Licensed Independent Mental Health Practitioner (LIMHP) who helps people facing stress, anxiety, grief, relationship strain, addictions, and midlife transitions. She brings a calm, encouraging presence and aims to help people find practical ways to feel steadier in daily life. Her approach is straightforward and compassionate, focused on helping clients become more resilient and clear about next steps.

Ellen draws on 36 years of clinical experience and a Master of Social Work from the University of Nebraska at Omaha. She spent time working with Veterans through the Veterans Health Administration and has experience in adolescent and home-based settings. Those roles shaped her skill at guiding people through loss, trauma, and major life changes.

In sessions she often uses cognitive behavioral techniques to identify unhelpful thinking and create concrete coping strategies. She also uses client-centered and psychodynamic ideas to understand how past patterns affect current feelings. Solution-focused work is used when clients want brief, goal-oriented steps to move forward.

People describe her style as empathetic and practical, with attention to problem solving and emotional support. She supports work on family issues, blended family concerns, caregiver stress, body image, and communication problems, among others. Ellen aims to help each person build the skills they need to feel more in control of daily life.

She is based in Nebraska as a LIMHP and offers services in English. For people considering therapy she recommends a short match questionnaire and a scheduling step to begin conversations about goals and next steps.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

36+ years

Credentials

Nebraska

Languages

English

How Ellen’s Approaches Translate to Online Work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and responding to what matters most to the person. The therapist offers empathy and reflection so clients feel understood and can discover their own solutions; this helps with relationship strain and self-worth concerns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors interact. It uses clear steps and exercises to change unhelpful thinking and build new habits, which can be useful for anxiety, depression, and stress-related problems.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. Ellen will work together with each client to identify goals and try methods that match those goals and personal preferences. That collaborative process helps shape whether sessions focus on short-term skill building or deeper exploration of long-standing patterns.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the specific session options before booking so you know which formats are offered. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. It can also let people try practical homework between sessions and bring real-life situations into conversation more quickly. Licensed professionals, including therapists like Ellen, tailor approaches so sessions fit the client’s everyday life and goals.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Ellen commonly address?

Ellen works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, trauma, and challenges tied to midlife and life transitions.

What is her general therapy style?

Her style is empathic and practical. She blends problem solving with emotional support to help people feel steadier and make changes that fit their lives.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 36 years of counseling experience, including work in hospital adolescent units and with the Veterans Health Administration.

What credentials and region are associated with this therapist?

She is a Licensed Independent Mental Health Practitioner (LIMHP) practicing in Nebraska.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Current session formats are not specified in the biography; confirm the available formats with the therapist before booking.

How does payment work and what does it cost?

Cost varies by location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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