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Ellen Thornton-Love

Ellen Thornton-Love, LCSW

Therapist · Oregon · 20+ years of experience

Practical support for midlife and major life stressors

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  • Compassionate listener
  • Goal focused
  • Values centered

About Ellen

Ellen Thornton-Love is a licensed clinical social worker in Oregon with 20 years of experience. She helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief, depression, or the fallout from trauma. She also supports parents who are struggling with the demands of caregiving and life changes such as a midlife crisis.

Her work begins with respectful listening. She shapes conversations around what matters most to the person in front of her. Ellen aims to make sessions practical, focused on small steps that fit into daily life rather than abstract theory.

She commonly uses approaches that help people notice thoughts and feelings, set clear goals, and try manageable experiments between sessions. Much of her time is spent helping people cope with strong emotions, improve communication, and make decisions when life feels stuck.

People who come for help often bring complex histories, including family-of-origin issues, attachment concerns, and past abuse. Ellen also supports those facing chronic illness, caregiving strain, or financial stress by breaking problems into parts and finding achievable next steps.

Her style is steady and compassionate. She partners with each person to build a plan that fits their values and daily responsibilities. Taking a first step toward change can feel hard, and she focuses on clear, doable progress rather than perfect outcomes.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesDepression

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsImpulsivityMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Oregon

Languages

English

Approaches that translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, midlife transitions, and persistent stress. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like panic, low mood, and worry.

Finding the right approach is part of starting therapy. Ellen will work with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That decision is collaborative and may change as work unfolds.

Confirm session formats before booking, since specific options are not listed in the biography. Online work can make therapy easier to fit into a busy life - it can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, and help maintain continuity during life transitions. Talk with the therapist about what rhythm and length of sessions will work best for your routine.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Ellen commonly address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting stress, and depression. Her practice also addresses midlife crisis and related challenges.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach is straightforward and collaborative. She listens carefully, sets practical goals, and uses exercises people can try between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 20 years of professional work experience in clinical practice and community settings.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds an LCSW and practices in Oregon.

Which languages are supported and can international clients work together?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist scheduling; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time according to therapist availability.

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