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Femi Carty

Femi Carty, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 4+ years of experience

Practical support for midlife change and relationships

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  • Integrative counselling
  • Telephone and video
  • BACP registered

About Femi

Femi Carty is a counsellor who helps people facing midlife questions, relationship strain, loss, anxiety, low mood and the stress of life changes. He works with people dealing with parenting pressures, career uncertainty, addiction concerns and issues around intimacy and self‑esteem. He welcomes conversations about trauma, grief and coping with long‑term illness. Femi uses an integrative approach, drawing on several therapies to suit each person. He listens first, then suggests ways to think about feelings and behaviours. Sessions focus on practical steps and on understanding patterns that keep problems repeating. His style is calm and straightforward. He aims to build a trusting atmosphere where people can speak honestly. In the first session he carries out an assessment to map current difficulties and agree goals together. Femi is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. He has four years of experience working with adults in the United Kingdom. He offers telephone sessions throughout the day and video sessions from 6:00pm UK time. People who choose him can expect collaborative planning and a mix of talking and practical exercises. He helps clients try new ways of responding to stress and relationship problems. He encourages realistic steps that fit everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesGriefParenting issuesDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Jungian TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How chosen approaches work in online therapy

Attachment‑Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current connections. It helps people who struggle with trust, abandonment fears or repeating relationship patterns to notice and change how they relate to others. Client‑Centered Therapy puts the person’s experience at the heart of the work. The counsellor listens closely, reflects what is said and supports people to find their own answers and pace for change. Finding the best approach is a shared process. The counsellor will talk through goals and preferences and suggest techniques from different approaches where helpful. Together they decide what feels most useful and adapt the plan as work progresses. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life. Femi offers telephone sessions during the day and video sessions from 6:00pm UK time, which may help with work breaks or family schedules. If you need a different arrangement, confirm the current session options before booking so you know what formats are available.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?

He supports people with relationship difficulties, grief, parenting concerns, depression, stress and anxiety, plus issues like addiction, trauma, self‑esteem and career worries.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He listens without judgement and adapts methods to each person. Sessions combine talking, exploring patterns and trying practical strategies to change unhelpful behaviours.

How much experience does he have?

He has four years of experience working with adults in the United Kingdom.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practices from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

International clients are accepted; check practical arrangements such as time zones when booking.

How are sessions charged and what is the cost structure?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin counselling?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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