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Gayle Nykerk-Jones

Gayle Nykerk-Jones, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 10+ years of experience

Midlife transitions and emotional support

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  • Neuro-affirmative approach
  • Goal focused work
  • BACP registered

About Gayle

Gayle Nykerk-Jones is a counsellor with ten years of experience who aims to help people facing midlife transitions, stress, anxiety and depression. She works with those dealing with grief, addictions and changes in focus or concentration. Gayle presents a calm, respectful approach and tailors conversations to each person's needs. She is BACP registered, practises in the United Kingdom and offers sessions in English.

Gayle describes herself as neuro-affirmative and has worked with neurodivergent adults, including late-diagnosed autism and attention difficulties. She uses an integrative style and draws on several therapeutic approaches to match what a person needs. Sessions are designed to be practical and down-to-earth, with simple strategies to manage mood, sleep, eating and daily routine.

Her work also covers relationship and intimacy concerns, parenting stress, career strain and compassion fatigue. Gayle often addresses attachment-related themes and abandonment worries, helping people notice patterns and try different responses. She offers help for those coping with chronic illness, caregiver stress and age-related worries.

People can expect a collaborative plan that focuses on clear goals and small steps. Gayle listens, reflects and offers tools from approaches such as cognitive and acceptance-based work, plus emotion-focused skills when useful. The emphasis is on supporting real-life change rather than technical jargon.

To begin, clients use the Start Therapy pathway and complete a short matching questionnaire before arranging sessions. Fees vary with location and a subscription model is used that can be cancelled at any time.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Gayle's approaches guide online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose values-based actions. It is useful for anxiety, stress and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and gives practical strategies to reduce low mood and worry. This can help with sleep, eating patterns and daily routine. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and can help when abandonment or communication problems are a concern.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Gayle will collaborate with each person to try methods that fit their goals and preferences. She adapts techniques over time and checks in about what helps and what does not, so the plan evolves together.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, cut travel time and allow quick check-ins when a short session is needed. It can also suit people who prefer to work from their own routine. Registered and accredited professionals often find online work supports consistent progress when paired with practical tasks between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Gayle help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief and addictions, plus relationship and intimacy worries and midlife changes.

What is Gayle's therapeutic style?

Her style is integrative and practical. She tailors sessions to the person and uses simple tools for everyday coping.

How long has Gayle practised counselling?

Gayle has ten years of professional counselling experience working with a broad range of concerns.

Where does Gayle practise and what are her credentials?

She practises in the United Kingdom and is registered with the BACP, which is shown as BACP in her profile.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with Gayle?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Costs vary by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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