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Gretchen  Raring

Gretchen Raring, LICSW, LCSW

Therapist · New Jersey · 24+ years of experience

Experienced social worker for midlife change

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  • Practical goal setting
  • Warm collaborative style
  • Focus on life transitions

About Gretchen

Gretchen Raring is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) who focuses on helping people navigate midlife challenges and other major life transitions. She brings a calm, straightforward style and works alongside clients to set practical goals. Gretchen draws on more than two decades of practice to help people manage stress, anxiety, relationship strain, mood concerns, and career or parenting pressures.

Gretchen uses clear, down-to-earth language in sessions. She listens for what matters most, then offers strategies that fit each person's life. That can mean skills for coping with strong emotions, communication tools for difficult relationships, or step-by-step plans to change unhelpful habits.

Her background includes work in mental health, addiction services, homelessness outreach, incarceration settings, and support for veterans. This range shapes an approach that balances compassion with real-world problem solving. She earned a Master of Social Work from Temple University and holds LICSW and LCSW credentials.

In therapy Gretchen prioritizes honesty and teamwork. She aims to help clients notice long-standing patterns, build new responses, and make choices that match their values. Her focus areas include depression, grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, bipolar concerns, ADHD, intimacy issues, and caregiving stress.

Sessions are intended to be collaborative and practical. Gretchen helps people take manageable steps toward change while honoring where they are now. Prospective clients in New Jersey can follow the site's steps to start a conversation and learn more about fit and scheduling.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Credentials

New Jersey, Florida, Massachusetts, North Dakota, Arizona

Languages

English

How therapy approaches guide online work

Gretchen often draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy in her work. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without being driven by them, then choose actions that match their values - useful for stress, anxiety, and midlife changes. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns in close relationships and helps people build more secure ways of connecting, which can help with intimacy issues and relationship conflict.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. Gretchen will work together with each person to figure out which methods fit their goals, needs, and day-to-day life. That collaborative planning means techniques may shift over time as priorities change.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when that suits a day. It can also let people use video or audio depending on how they prefer to communicate. Talk with Gretchen about what will work best for your situation and goals so sessions fit into your life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, trauma and abuse, caregiving stress, addictions, ADHD, and many life changes common in midlife.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is client-centered and collaborative, combining practical tools with attention to emotions and relationships.

What is her professional background?

Gretchen has 24 years of experience across mental health, addiction services, homelessness outreach, incarceration settings, and veteran support.

Which credentials and location apply here?

She holds MA LICSW and ND LCSW credentials and works with clients based in New Jersey.

What languages are offered and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Confirm current session options before booking to learn which formats she offers for your situation.

How are costs handled?

Fees vary by location and availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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