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Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews, BACP, NCPS

Therapist · United Kingdom · 5+ years of experience

Calm, practical support for life transitions

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  • Person centred
  • Relational care
  • Mindful techniques

About Hayley

Hayley Matthews is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression and life changes. She works with individuals dealing with trauma, relationship strains, addiction and low self-esteem. Hayley aims to make starting therapy straightforward and supportive for people feeling overwhelmed by midlife shifts or other major transitions.

Her practice is person-centred, which means she focuses on the person rather than labels. Sessions look at life experience and how it affects current feelings and behaviour. Hayley uses warmth, honesty and respect to build a trusting therapeutic relationship.

She draws on a range of approaches to suit each person’s needs, including cognitive behavioural tools and mindfulness techniques. These are used alongside relational work to help people understand patterns, manage distressing thoughts and try new ways of coping.

Hayley has five years' experience working in mental health and the care sector. She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - BACP, and NCPS. Her practice has involved both short-term and longer-term counselling for varied concerns such as grief, addiction, parenting pressures and work stress.

Sessions can include creative options like journaling or metaphor work when helpful. To begin, people complete a brief matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesGuilt and shameHearing impairedIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom, United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Hayley uses different approaches online

Hayley works relationally and draws on a few complementary approaches to help people when meeting remotely. Attachment-based work pays attention to how early relationships shape current reactions and helps when trust, closeness or abandonment remain concerns. Client-centred therapy focuses on listening, empathy and working at your pace so you can make sense of feelings and find your own solutions.

Cognitive behavioural techniques are used to spot unhelpful thoughts and try practical experiments to change patterns. These tools often help with anxiety, low mood and stress by teaching concrete skills to manage difficult moments. Hayley also integrates mindfulness to support grounding and present-moment noticing when needed.

Choosing the right approach is collaborative. The therapist will discuss goals, what helps you most and adapt methods as you go. That means the plan can change if something does not fit, and you both review progress together.

Practical benefits of online work include fitting sessions more easily around daily life and attending from wherever you are in the UK. Online and telephone options can make shorter check-ins or regular therapy simpler to schedule. Confirm the exact session formats offered before booking so arrangements match your needs.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Hayley address?

Hayley supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship and intimacy-related issues, addictions, grief, parenting concerns and many other life challenges including midlife change.

How would she approach my difficulties?

She uses a person-centred, relational style and combines it with practical techniques from cognitive behavioural therapy and mindfulness to help you understand patterns and learn coping strategies.

What is her professional background?

Hayley has five years' experience working in mental health and the care sector, offering both short-term and longer-term counselling to people with a wide range of concerns.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and NCPS, and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English only.

What session formats are available?

The biography states that Hayley provides online or telephone sessions; confirm the current session options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to her availability.

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