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Hilary Cartmel-Batty

Hilary Cartmel-Batty, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 5+ years of experience

Experienced BACP counsellor for life changes

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  • Attachment-aware practice
  • Practical goal focus
  • Warm listening style

About Hilary

Hilary Cartmel-Batty is a BACP counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, and the effects of trauma. She also supports those dealing with grief, addiction, parenting challenges, low self-esteem and career concerns. Her approach is warm and straightforward, aimed at helping people feel heard and understood.

Hilary encourages people to speak freely about what matters to them. She aims to build an open space where thoughts and feelings can be shared without judgment. Taking that first step can feel hard, and she focuses on practical ways to move forward.

In sessions she combines attachment-based ideas with client-centred listening and solution-focused work. That means paying attention to how relationships shape feelings, listening closely to each person, and helping set clear, realistic goals. She also uses trauma-focused approaches when past harm affects present life.

Hilary has five years of professional experience and holds membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP. She runs a private practice alongside other commitments, so diary notes may not always show every option.

She offers a mix of fixed and flexible weekly sessions to suit different schedules. Before booking, people are encouraged to consider their needs and discuss session rhythms so arrangements can fit practical life demands.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Hilary's approaches work in online therapy

Hilary draws on attachment-based work to look at how important relationships shape feelings and behaviour. This approach helps when worries stem from connection, trust or repeated relationship patterns.

She also uses a client-centred approach that prioritises the person in the room. That means listening closely, reflecting what is said, and letting the person's priorities guide the work. Solution-focused techniques are used to identify small, practical steps that move things forward quickly and clearly.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work together with each person to agree what feels most useful based on needs, goals and personal preference. Plans can change as work moves on, and approaches are combined when that helps.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Many people find online sessions help fit therapy into a busy life by reducing travel, making it easier to have shorter check-ins, or allowing appointments to sit around work and family commitments. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt pace and focus to suit how someone prefers to work.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Hilary help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, parenting and a wide range of emotional and life changes including midlife concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her work is warm and direct, combining listening with practical steps. Sessions focus on understanding feelings and setting small, achievable goals.

What experience does she bring?

Hilary has five years of experience working in counselling and psychotherapy roles, using several collaborative approaches to help people make changes.

What credentials and region apply?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients book sessions?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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