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Jill Bashorun

Jill Bashorun, LPC

Therapist · Oklahoma · 29+ years of experience

Compassionate counselor for midlife transitions

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  • Trauma informed
  • Practical coping tools
  • Longstanding experience

About Jill

Jill Bashorun is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with 29 years of experience helping people through hard seasons. She sees individuals who feel overwhelmed by anxiety, trauma, chronic illness, relationship strain, or big life changes. Her approach is steady and practical, focused on listening first and offering usable coping tools next.

Jill aims to make sessions a calm place to talk without judgment. She helps people spot unhelpful patterns and find small changes that add up. Clients often work on managing stress, improving communication, and handling the emotional fallout of illness or caregiving.

Her work covers trauma and abuse, intimacy-related concerns, and compassion fatigue alongside anxiety and depression. Jill also supports people facing fertility struggles, blended family stress, first responder challenges, and issues tied to chronic pain or disability. She pays attention to how family of origin, commitment concerns, and past hurt affect daily life.

Jill brings experience addressing kink and alternative sexual cultures, BDSM concerns, and the needs of autistic adults. She also assists people working through infidelity, control issues, and domestic violence aftermath. Her aim is to help clients regain confidence and clearer direction.

Sessions are offered in English from Oklahoma. Jill uses practical strategies and steady support so people can make gradual, meaningful changes. When clients are ready to begin, she guides them step by step through the process of matching goals to therapy work.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDomestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesFirst responder issuesHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualityTraumatic brain injuryYoung adult issues

Experience

29+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Wyoming

Languages

English

Therapeutic Approaches and How They Help Online

Jill uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change and emotional healing. One common approach she relies on involves helping people identify unhelpful thoughts and behaviors and replace them with more useful habits; this approach helps with anxiety, stress, and depression by giving clear steps to practice between sessions.

Another frequent focus is trauma-informed work that prioritizes safety and pacing. This helps people who feel overwhelmed by past hurt learn to manage strong emotions and build resilience over time. A third area she often attends to is coping skills for managing chronic illness and caregiver stress, offering ways to reduce burnout and improve daily functioning.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Jill works with each person to match techniques to their needs, goals, and preferences. She talks through options, adjusts plans as progress is made, and keeps the work practical and goal-focused.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the specific session formats before booking since formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, and reduce commute time so people can meet during breaks or between obligations. Licensed professionals can help tailor session length and focus to what fits best for daily life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns are addressed?

Jill helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue. She also works with related concerns like chronic illness, caregiver strain, blended family issues, and infidelity.

How does she approach therapy?

Her style is compassionate and practical. Jill listens first, helps identify patterns, and teaches coping skills clients can use between sessions.

What is her professional background?

She has 29 years of clinical experience working with people facing anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, and relationship challenges.

Where is she based and licensed?

Jill practices in Oklahoma and holds the LPC credential listed as LPC in her profile.

Can sessions be held in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does billing or cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. Then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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