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John Clare

John Clare, NCPS

Therapist · United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

Thoughtful person-centred counsellor for life change

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  • Person-centred listening
  • Support for midlife change
  • Practical coping steps

About John

John Clare is a person-centred counsellor who offers an empathic, non-judgemental space for people at midlife and beyond to talk through what feels difficult. He uses Client-Centred Therapy to listen carefully and help clients find their own answers. He presents as calm and direct, inviting honest conversation about stress, loss, identity and life change.

He helps people manage anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and overwhelm. He also supports those coping with trauma, grief, addictions, and intimacy-related concerns. Midlife crisis and career crossroads are included among the life changes he can talk through with clients.

John draws on three years working across education, social care and community settings. He currently works in a Social, Emotional and Mental Health primary school, where he supports children with creative and movement-based approaches. That experience informs his practical, relational style with adults.

Sessions focus on what the client brings. John listens, reflects and asks questions to clarify values and goals. He encourages small steps people can try between meetings to test new ways of coping and relating.

He is registered with NCPS, the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society. Sessions are offered in English and delivered from the United Kingdom. To begin, people select the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire before scheduling.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseParenting issuesDepressionADHD

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Client-centred support for online sessions

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on warm, non-judgemental listening. The counsellor pays close attention to what the client says, reflects it back and helps clarify values and choices. This approach is often useful for people dealing with anxiety, low self-esteem, grief or midlife uncertainty.

John's background in education and social care brings a practical, relational slant to this approach. He aims to help clients identify small, manageable steps between sessions and to test new ways of coping. Finding the best fit is collaborative - he will work with the client to shape the focus and pace of sessions around their needs and goals.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, reduce travel time and allow check-ins during breaks or quieter periods. They can also let people choose audio-only or shorter conversations when that better suits their circumstances, subject to the formats the therapist provides.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does John commonly help with?

He supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and midlife change, plus related issues such as self-esteem, relationship difficulties and career uncertainty.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He practises Client-Centred Therapy, offering empathic listening and reflection so clients can find their own solutions and clarify what matters to them.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has three years' experience and works in a Social, Emotional and Mental Health primary school, which informs a down-to-earth and relational way of working.

Where is he based and how is he registered?

He is based in the United Kingdom and carries the NCPS credential, which appears as NCPS in his profile.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people from other countries book sessions?

International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are arranged for people within the United Kingdom.

How are session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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