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John Ridley

John Ridley, BACP, NCPS

Therapist · United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

Practical support for stress and transition

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Midlife and change
  • Values-based work

About John

John Ridley is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom. He works with people facing stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship worries, depression and LGBT concerns. He aims to offer calm, respectful support for those wanting a change.

He adapts conversations and plans to each person. Sessions are practical and focused on what matters to the client. He helps people identify small, workable steps such as new routines, clearer boundaries, or ways to manage difficult feelings.

John draws on several recognised approaches including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Client-Centred Therapy. He uses these methods to help people notice unhelpful patterns, try new responses and build values-driven goals.

He has three years of professional experience and holds BACP and NCPS credentials. He aims to be warm and non-judgemental and to treat everyone with sensitivity and respect.

People often come for help with commitment worries, attachment concerns, body image, caring stress, addiction, chronic illness and difficulties after separation. John will listen, help set clear goals and work alongside a person as they try different ways to move forward.

To start, he encourages a straightforward conversation about what someone hopes to change and then shapes sessions around those priorities.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom, United Kingdom

Languages

English

How these approaches can work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without being driven by them, then identify personal values to guide small, meaningful steps. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thinking and trying practical experiments to change feelings and behaviour. Client-Centred Therapy emphasises a respectful, non-judgemental relationship where the counsellor listens and reflects to help people find their own solutions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. John will discuss which methods suit a person's goals and preferences and adapt the way he works as those goals evolve. This is a collaborative process and decisions about focus and techniques are made together.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm the current online options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around work, carers' duties or travel, and they can reduce time spent commuting. They also allow for shorter check-ins or flexible scheduling when life is busy. Registered or accredited professionals can use different approaches online, and John aims to help people transfer therapeutic tools into everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What types of problems does this counsellor help with?

John supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem and relationship worries, and he lists LGBT concerns and midlife change among his focus areas.

How would sessions usually feel and proceed?

Sessions are conversational and practical, focused on the clients priorities. John tailors discussions and plans to each person and works on concrete steps to try between meetings.

What is his professional background?

He has three years of professional experience supporting people with a range of emotional and relationship issues.

What credentials and region are listed?

John holds BACP and NCPS credentials and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international arrangements are available?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapists availability.

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