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John Self

John Self, LPC

Therapist · Texas · 30+ years of experience

Guided, practical counseling for life transitions

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  • Practical coping skills
  • Collaborative goal work
  • Support for life change

About John

John Self is an LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor) based in Texas with 30 years of experience. He focuses on helping people facing stress, anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, substance concerns, and changes in life direction. He emphasizes the client as the expert in their own story and offers steady support while people take steps toward change.

He approaches sessions with a collaborative, straightforward style. He uses practical strategies such as coping skills, relaxation and mindfulness exercises, guided imagery, and homework to build new habits. Sessions often include work on motivation, self-esteem, and everyday problem solving.

Across his career he has spent significant time helping people affected by addiction and by trauma. He also has experience with issues that affect parents, caregivers, and people going through life-stage transitions. He describes his role as supporting and empowering clients as they reclaim a more satisfying life.

John uses a range of therapy methods drawn from cognitive behavioral ideas, acceptance and commitment approaches, dialectical behavior techniques, and client-centered principles. He tailors methods to each person’s needs and priorities rather than using a one-size-fits-all plan.

People who prefer direct, skills-based work alongside reflective conversation tend to fit well with his style. The focus is practical progress – clearer coping, steadier mood, and better daily functioning. He invites prospective clients to consider what they hope to change and to take a first step toward that goal.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

Texas

Languages

English

How different approaches guide online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying personal values and taking meaningful action. It helps when worry or low mood get in the way of the life someone wants to lead. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, behaviors, and feelings interact and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns. It is often used for anxiety, depression, and stress management.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then try methods together to see what helps. That collaborative process lets the plan change over time as progress is made or new needs appear.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around a job, childcare, or other daily demands. They also let people use quieter or lower-bandwidth options when needed, and can reduce travel time so appointments are simpler to keep. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT and CBT techniques to remote sessions so practical skill building, values work, and behavioral experiments can continue between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he address?

He works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, parenting and caregiver stress, ADHD, bipolar mood concerns, and life transitions.

What is his therapy style like?

Sessions combine practical skills and reflective conversation. Expect coping skills, relaxation and mindfulness practice, guided imagery, and homework to reinforce what you try between meetings.

How much experience does he have?

He has 30 years of professional experience working in counseling and related settings, including lengthy work with people recovering from addiction and with trauma histories.

Where is he licensed and based?

He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Texas and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are costs handled?

Fees vary with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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