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John Vangerov

John Vangerov, LMFT

Therapist · California · 25+ years of experience

Change-focused therapist with practical support

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  • Addictions and recovery
  • Mood and anxiety
  • Relationship help

About John

John Vangerov is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in California with 25 years of professional experience. He focuses on helping people manage addictions, grief, anxiety, depression, and major life changes. He aims to create a caring space where clients can speak honestly and be heard.

In sessions he listens for what matters most to each person and helps them clarify goals. He works with clients on relationship concerns, intimacy-related issues, and self-esteem. He also supports people dealing with career stress, compassion fatigue, and the challenges of caregiving.

His background includes long-term work with substance use and co-occurring problems. He guides people through patterns like codependency, commitment struggles, and communication breakdowns. He also addresses personality-related issues such as avoidant or dependent tendencies when they affect daily life.

John has experience supporting LGBT clients and those facing aging or blended-family concerns. He helps people process trauma and abuse and the complicated emotions that follow. He pays attention to practical steps clients can try between sessions.

Clients can expect a straightforward, nonjudgmental approach that focuses on real-life problems. He encourages small, achievable changes and supports people as they try new ways of relating and coping. The aim is to help clients move toward a more satisfying, manageable life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Drug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPersonality disordersPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How John’s Approaches Work Online

John uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on concrete change and clearer understanding. One common approach emphasizes identifying unhelpful patterns and testing small behavior changes to see what helps with mood, anxiety, and relationship problems. Another approach focuses on processing loss and grief by helping people name emotions and develop new coping routines to manage intense feelings.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist and client review goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then try methods that fit those priorities. This is a collaborative process with room to adjust as progress and needs change.

Many people find online therapy helps fit sessions into busy lives because it eliminates travel time and can be scheduled around work or caregiving. Online visits can make it easier to check in more frequently, try brief midweek sessions, or continue work while relocating within the same state. Confirm current session options before booking to learn which formats are offered and what will work best for scheduling and day-to-day needs.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he address?

He helps people with addictions, grief, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and coping with life changes among other concerns.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He uses a direct, nonjudgmental approach that focuses on clear goals and practical steps people can try between sessions.

How much experience does he have?

He has 25 years of professional work experience in clinical settings and counseling roles.

Where is he licensed and practicing?

He is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) in California.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees structured?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a meeting based on therapist availability.

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