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Julie Shankly

Julie Shankly, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 21+ years of experience

Experienced UK counsellor for life transitions

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  • 21 years experience
  • BACP registered
  • Practical supportive style

About Julie

Julie Shankly is a counsellor with 21 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and she aims to offer a respectful and compassionate space for people beginning therapy. Julie focuses on practical support and clear conversation rather than jargon or long clinical explanations.

She helps people dealing with stress and anxiety, relationship strains, family conflict and intimacy-related worries. She also supports those facing depression, grief, trauma and abuse, and a range of life changes such as career shifts or parenting pressures. Her practice includes work with eating and sleeping problems, compassion fatigue, ADHD and bipolar concerns where relevant.

Julie adapts sessions to each person. She will tailor talk and therapeutic tasks to what feels most useful for the individual. Clients can expect a straightforward approach that aims to address immediate problems while looking at deeper patterns when needed.

Her methods draw on several approaches including client-centred work and cognitive behavioural techniques, plus solution-focused and psychodynamic ideas when they fit the situation. Hypnotherapy is also part of her toolkit for those who find it helpful.

Julie encourages people to be patient with themselves when starting therapy and acknowledges that taking the first step takes courage. She asks new clients to use the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire to begin the process and arrange sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)HypnotherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

21+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they translate online

Client-centred therapy focuses on understanding your experience and building a trusting relationship. The counsellor listens without judgement and helps you find your own solutions, which can be useful for anxiety, low mood and relationship concerns.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours connect. It uses practical techniques and short exercises to reduce unhelpful patterns and can help with stress, sleep issues and worry.

Hypnotherapy is offered as an additional tool to support change through guided relaxation and focused suggestion; people sometimes use it for habits, anxiety or sleep problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss options with each person and agree on a plan that fits their goals and preferences. This is a collaborative process and can change as needs evolve.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit counselling around everyday life, for example by reducing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins during a lunch break, or letting someone join from a quieter location. Please confirm which session formats are available before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

Frequently asked questions

What issues can I bring to sessions?

Julie works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, intimacy issues, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, eating and sleeping problems, parenting pressures, career change, ADHD and more.

How would you describe your therapeutic style?

She takes a practical, straightforward approach that combines listening with useful techniques. Sessions are tailored to the person's needs and may include short exercises or reflection between meetings.

What background does the counsellor have?

Julie has 21 years of professional experience working in the UK helping people with a wide range of difficulties and life transitions.

Which professional credential does she hold?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, listed as BACP.

Can I have sessions in other languages or from abroad?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with this counsellor?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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