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Kalpna Kerai

Kalpna Kerai, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 13+ years of experience

Counselling focused on connection and practical change

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  • Attachment-aware approach
  • Practical solution focus
  • Motivational support

About Kalpna

Kalpna Kerai is a counsellor who uses a client-focused, attachment-aware way of working to help people who are stuck or struggling. She holds BACP accreditation and brings 13 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She aims to make first steps feel easier and to create a calm space where people can speak honestly about difficult things.

She commonly helps with stress and anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, and motivation. She also supports people dealing with grief, relationship and intimacy-related worries, eating and sleeping problems, parenting stresses, career strain, bipolar and depression, and ADHD challenges. Midlife crisis is among the topics she has experience with.

Kalpna combines Attachment-Based ideas with Client-Centred and Solution-Focused approaches. That means she pays attention to how past relationships affect current feelings, follows each person’s pace, and looks for practical steps that make a difference. Sessions tend to focus on what matters now and on small changes that build confidence.

Her work also draws on Motivational Interviewing and Existential perspectives when useful. This can help with decisions, shifting stuck patterns, and finding meaning after loss or big life change. She keeps language plain and avoids jargon so people can understand and use what they discuss.

People who choose to work with her start by answering a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the listed process. She accepts people from the United Kingdom and international clients who prefer to work in English.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefSelf esteem

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online work

Kalpna uses Attachment-Based and Client-Centred ideas alongside Solution-Focused tools. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current reactions and helps people notice patterns that cause pain. Client-Centred Therapy means the counsellor listens without directing, helping people find their own pace and solutions. Solution-Focused work concentrates on small, practical steps that move a person toward their goals rather than re-living every detail of a problem.

Finding the right mix of these approaches is part of the process. The counsellor will talk with each person about goals, preferences and what feels helpful. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust them as the work progresses, keeping the plan practical and personally relevant.

The original biography did not specify which session formats are used, so please confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. Some people find it simpler to speak without being on camera, while others prefer face-to-face style conversations by video; the counsellor will help match the format to the client’s needs and day-to-day routine.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly help with?

She works with many everyday and complex concerns including stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, low self-esteem, relationship and intimacy-related issues, eating and sleeping problems, parenting pressures, career matters, bipolar and depression, ADHD, and midlife crisis.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style blends Attachment-Based and Client-Centred principles with Solution-Focused and Motivational Interviewing tools. She follows the person’s lead while offering practical steps and motivational support.

What is her professional background?

She has 13 years of professional experience working in the United Kingdom supporting people with a wide range of emotional and behavioural concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is recorded with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are used in sessions and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients who wish to work in that language.

What session formats are available?

The original biography did not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking so you know whether online, telephone, or face-to-face meetings are offered.

How are sessions paid for and what does cost look like?

Session cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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