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Harold "Lanny" Monson

Harold "Lanny" Monson, LMFT

Therapist · Utah · 25+ years of experience

Midlife and life-change focused therapist

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  • 25 years experience
  • LMFT credential
  • Client-centered focus

About Harold

Harold "Lanny" Monson is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Utah with 25 years of experience. He helps people facing relationship strain, grief, addiction, anxiety, depression, and the life shifts that often come in midlife. Lanny talks plainly and focuses on helping people notice what they can change. He uses clear ideas and practical steps to help people regain a sense of control.

Lanny draws on a long history of work with trauma, substance use, and people who feel marginalized. He has spent years supporting survivors of sexual assault and domestic violence, and helping people involved with correctional settings. That background shapes how he listens and how he supports people who feel powerless.

Education and credentials include a Bachelor of Science from Brigham Young University, a Master of Science in Family and Human Development from Utah State University, and a Post-Master's Certificate in Marriage and Family Therapy from Saint Marys University. He holds LMFT licensure in Utah and Washington and has worked as a Family Advocacy Program Manager on a secured military base.

In sessions he uses an approach he calls "The Power Within" to move people away from feeling stuck by external pressures. He also draws on client-centered techniques, cognitive behavioral ideas, mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and the Gottman Method when those fit a person's goals.

People describe his work as direct and hopeful; he focuses on helping clients build practical skills and clearer relationships. He aims to help people find steps they can take now to feel more agency and forward momentum.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

Utah, Washington

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches guide online work

Client-centered therapy centers the person's own experience and goals, encouraging the therapist to reflect and guide rather than direct. It helps people who need a compassionate listener and someone to help them name what matters most. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and patterns and replacing them with actions that lead to different outcomes; it often helps with anxiety, depression, and daily coping skills.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn't helped before. Together they decide which approaches to try and adjust the plan as progress is made.

The original biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It can also let someone keep consistent appointments during life transitions. Licensed professionals can adapt client-centered and CBT techniques to remote sessions, using discussion, behavioral experiments, and mindfulness exercises to support progress.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He works with relationship problems, parenting and family stress, addiction, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, self-esteem and midlife changes among many related issues.

How would you describe his therapy style?

His style is direct and practical with a strong focus on helping people feel more in control. Sessions emphasize clear steps, reflection, and skills people can use between meetings.

What is his professional background?

He has 25 years of clinical experience, including work with survivors of sexual assault, people with substance use issues, correctional populations, and military family advocacy.

What credentials and location are on file?

He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with licensure listed in Utah and Washington, and he practices out of Utah.

In which languages can sessions be held?

Sessions are offered in English.

Which session formats are available?

The original biography does not list session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and the therapist's schedule; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to begin?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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