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Luke Borkenhagen

Luke Borkenhagen, LICSW

Therapist · Minnesota · 5+ years of experience

Therapist and guide for life transitions

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  • Collaborative approach
  • Focus on midlife shifts
  • Practical and reflective

About Luke

Luke Borkenhagen is a licensed clinical social worker in Minnesota with five years of professional experience. He frames therapy as a partnership, listening closely and offering new perspectives as people navigate stress, anxiety, trauma, and difficult life changes. Luke aims to help clients build confidence and move past obstacles that keep them stuck.

He draws on several approaches to guide sessions, including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, attachment-based ideas, client-centered methods, cognitive behavioral techniques, and Jungian concepts. In practice he uses somatic awareness, parts work, and archetypal thinking to help people understand how feelings and behaviors connect to life stories and relationships. Sessions focus on practical steps alongside deeper exploration.

Common concerns he addresses include anger, self-esteem, intimacy-related issues, compassion fatigue, and family conflict. He also works with people facing dissociation, addiction, caregiver stress, and the effects of trauma and abuse. Luke notes additional focus on attachment issues, autism and Asperger syndrome, and kink and alternative sex culture when these topics are relevant to a client’s goals.

His style is collaborative and straightforward. He helps clients set goals, try new ways of responding, and notice what shifts. He encourages moving gently outside comfort zones while keeping the work grounded in everyday life.

Luke invites prospective clients to share their story and see whether the working relationship feels right. He uses a step-by-step intake process to match needs to approach and timing.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCancerCaregiver issues and stressDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsGuilt and shameInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySomatic TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

Minnesota

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then taking actions that align with personal values; it can help with anxiety, stress, and life transitions. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships influence current patterns and helps people adjust how they relate to others and to themselves. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns to reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Luke will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. He mixes techniques when useful and checks in regularly to see what is helping and what needs to change.

Confirm session formats before booking to know how therapy will be delivered. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also makes it simpler to continue momentum between appointments by keeping sessions consistent during life transitions. Luke aims to help clients use therapeutic tools in everyday situations so change can happen outside the therapy hour.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Luke address?

He helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, anger, self-esteem, and coping with life changes. He also supports work around trauma, intimacy-related issues, compassion fatigue, and related family or relationship problems.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Luke describes therapy as a partnership and works in a straightforward, collaborative way. Sessions blend practical exercises with deeper exploration using somatic awareness and parts work.

What is his professional background?

He is a licensed clinical social worker with five years of professional practice experience. His background includes helping people with trauma, addiction, caregiver stress, and other life challenges.

Where is Luke based and what is his credential?

He is based in Minnesota and holds a Minnesota LICSW, which stands for Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Exact pricing is provided during the intake process.

How do I begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability. This begins the process of matching needs and setting first appointments.

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