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Marco Schilling

Marco Schilling, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 4+ years of experience

Counselling focused on life changes and relationships

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  • Person-centred approach
  • Psychodynamic perspective
  • Speaks English and German

About Marco

Marco Schilling is a psychotherapeutic counsellor who uses a person-centred approach alongside psychodynamic ideas. He aims to create a calm, compassionate space where people can talk about current problems and longer-term concerns. He speaks English and German and works from the United Kingdom. He is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

He helps people who are dealing with depression, anxiety, bereavement and stress. He also addresses career changes, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strains, sleeping problems, anger, addictions and feelings of low self-esteem. Midlife crisis and questions about life purpose are part of his additional focus areas.

Marco draws on experience from work in the NHS and as a bereavement counsellor. He has supported people with chronic mental health conditions, autism and learning difficulties in roles as a support worker. His background includes work and study in several countries and a creative career in music and television production.

In sessions he pays attention to how present difficulties can link to past relationships and experiences. He listens for patterns that keep causing the same problems and works at each person’s pace. Therapy is presented as a collaborative process where people can make sense of their feelings and try new ways of coping.

Practical details include an initial introductory phone call to answer questions and discuss how to work together. He provides therapy in person and via video and telephone, and uses a subscription payment model that can be cancelled at any time.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Family conflictsGriefCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCo-morbidityCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, German

How client-centred and psychodynamic work translate online

Marco uses client-centred counselling to focus on the person’s experience in the here and now, listening closely and reflecting back what’s been said so people feel heard and understood. This approach is useful for issues like anxiety, low self-esteem and relationship problems where being listened to can open new ways of coping.

He also integrates psychodynamic ideas to look at how past relationships and experiences shape current patterns. This can help when difficulties keep repeating, or when someone wants to understand deeper roots of emotions such as grief, abandonment or shame.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most helpful, and the two of you will decide together how to proceed. The process is collaborative and paced to each person's needs.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions into a busy week and reducing travel time, which can make it easier to maintain regular appointments. Video or telephone sessions can offer flexibility for shorter check-ins or when being on camera is not preferred. Confirm the current session options with the therapist before booking to make sure they match your needs.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this counsellor commonly address?

He works with a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy matters, stress, addictions and midlife crisis. He also lists parenting, career changes and sleep difficulties among his focus areas.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He combines a client-centred style with psychodynamic ideas, offering a supportive, reflective space and attention to how past experiences shape present patterns.

What relevant background and experience does he have?

He has four years' experience working in counselling roles, including work with the NHS and as a bereavement counsellor, plus experience as a support worker with autism and learning difficulties.

What professional credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and German.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are provided to people based in the United Kingdom.

How are fees and payments arranged?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What is the first step to begin therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.

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