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Mark Burns

Mark Burns, LMFT

Therapist · California · 37+ years of experience

Experienced California LMFT for midlife and intimacy issues

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  • LGBTQ focused
  • Relationship and intimacy
  • Practical life changes

About Mark

Mark Burns is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with 37 years of experience. He focuses on helping people through major life transitions and on issues tied to identity, intimacy, and self-worth. He centers his work on listening carefully and helping clients find clearer direction for their goals and relationships.

He often sees people wrestling with relationship and intimacy challenges, sexual health concerns, and questions about life purpose. He also supports those navigating fatherhood, family of origin issues, and midlife changes. His work includes attention to BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture when relevant to a client's concerns.

Sessions are conversational and practical. He helps clients name what matters, try small changes, and build habits that match their values. He aims to create a respectful, nonjudgmental space where difficult topics can be talked through plainly.

Over his career he has developed ways to help people increase self-love, rebuild self-esteem, and manage the uncertainty that comes with big changes. He brings steady experience to problems like sexual dysfunction, sex addiction, and living with HIV or AIDS. The emphasis is on realistic steps clients can take between sessions.

People who resonate with a calm, direct style and who want to do practical work on identity, relationships, or midlife questions may find his approach helpful. Anyone considering therapy should confirm current session options before booking.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

BDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureFamily of origin issuesFatherhood issuesHIV / AIDSLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunction

Experience

37+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work and how they help

Mark Burns uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques tailored to each person's needs. One common approach focuses on strengthening emotional awareness and communication skills to improve intimacy and relationship patterns. This helps when conversations feel stuck or when partners struggle to connect.

Another approach emphasizes practical behavior change and skill-building to support self-esteem, coping, and life transitions. That work looks at daily habits, decision-making, and steps a person can try between sessions to test what works for them.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. He will work collaboratively with clients to identify which methods fit their goals and preferences, and adjust strategies as needs change. The therapist and client decide together what to try and when to shift direction.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life by reducing travel time and allowing appointments during work breaks or between errands. They can also allow shorter check-ins when needed, or full-length sessions when more time is helpful. Licensed professionals can adapt tools and exercises for remote work to keep therapy practical and focused on everyday changes.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he address?

He works with LGBT issues, relationship and intimacy concerns, self-esteem, coping with life changes, and midlife crisis topics. Additional focuses include sexual health, family of origin matters, fatherhood, and related areas.

What is his therapeutic style like?

His style is calm, direct, and practical. Sessions tend to be conversational with concrete steps to practice between meetings.

How much experience does he have?

He has 37 years of clinical experience working with a range of intimacy and life-transition issues.

What are his credentials and where is he located?

He is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, listed as LMFT, and practices in California.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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