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Melisha Pillay

Melisha Pillay, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 4+ years of experience

Compassionate counsellor helping people find freedom

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  • Creative interventions
  • Values led support
  • Christian counselling option

About Melisha

Melisha Pillay is a counsellor with four years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She offers a calm, respectful space where people can start from the inside and explore things they find hard to say out loud. Her work is informed by her own experience of finding voice and confidence after a difficult period, which is part of why she chose this path.

She uses creative interventions to help people move from where they are to where they want to be. These techniques aim to engage different parts of the mind so progress can happen more quickly than through talking alone. Melisha also draws on people's own beliefs and values as tools for change, including offering Christian counselling and support framed by an individual’s faith when that is important to them.

Empathy, honesty and trust are central to her practice. That approach is intended to help people feel safe enough to open up about what really matters. She works with a wide range of concerns, including stress, anxiety, relationships, trauma and abuse, self-esteem and depression, as well as life changes and career strain.

Melisha uses several well-known therapeutic approaches in her sessions, such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy. She also supports issues like grief, addictions, ADHD, parenting challenges and compassion fatigue.

Sessions are offered in English and she is able to work with international clients. Costs vary with location and use a cancellable subscription model. To begin, people select the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire before scheduling.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Melisha’s approaches guide online counselling

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts without getting stuck in them and focus on actions that matter to them. It can be useful for stress, anxiety and coping with life changes. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect present feelings and behaviours and can help with intimacy, trust and relationship difficulties. Client-Centred Therapy prioritises the person’s own experience and values, offering non-judgemental listening so people can find their own solutions and build confidence.

Deciding which approach to use is part of the work. Melisha will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their goals, needs and preferences. That means checking in and adjusting the approach as therapy progresses rather than fixing one method from the start.

The profile does not list specific online formats, so please confirm available session types before booking. Many people find online sessions helpful because they can fit appointments around work and family life, reduce travel time and make regular check-ins easier to schedule. Others appreciate options that let them use video, audio or shorter phone-style meetings when they need a quicker check-in or have limited bandwidth. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt exercises and creative interventions for remote sessions, helping people apply tools in daily life without requiring extra travel.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Melisha help with?

She supports a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, self-esteem and depression, plus life changes and career concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style emphasises empathy, honesty and trust, using creative interventions and people’s own beliefs to help them move forward.

How much experience does she have?

Melisha has four years of professional experience working as a counsellor in the United Kingdom.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She holds BACP as provided in her profile and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not list specific session formats, so please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How are fees handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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