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Melissa Ardelean

Melissa Ardelean, LPCC

Therapist · California · 3+ years of experience

Compassionate counselor for relationship and life change

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  • Relationship support
  • Family conflict
  • Telehealth video

About Melissa

Melissa Ardelean is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) in California who supports people facing relationship strain, family conflict, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related concerns, and midlife transitions. She offers late afternoon, evening, night, late night, and weekend sessions, and asks people to contact her if they need hours not shown on the schedule. Melissa presents a direct and open style and aims to meet clients where they are.

Her approach combines practical skills with attention to each person’s life story. She draws from cognitive behavioral methods to address unhelpful thinking and uses acceptance and commitment ideas to clarify values and next steps. Attachment-focused work helps when relational patterns and abandonment wounds are shaping current struggles.

Melissa partners with people to build tools they can use outside of sessions. She emphasizes skill-building for communication, emotion regulation, and navigating life changes like separation or caregiver stress. Sessions are collaborative and paced to individual needs.

She has three years of clinical experience and has worked with teens, young adults, and adults on complex trauma, immigrant family dynamics, blended family issues, and intimacy concerns. She also supports people dealing with chronic illness, body image, and commitment questions.

All sessions are offered by telehealth video only; text or chat therapy is not provided. Melissa uses evidence-based approaches and encourages people to rely on their strengths as they work toward more ease and joy in everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How Melissa’s approaches translate to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people identify what matters most and take small steps toward those values. Online ACT work often focuses on short exercises, practical homework, and noticing what gets in the way of chosen actions.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect current connections. In video sessions this can mean talking through relationship histories, practicing new interaction skills, and spotting recurring patterns that cause pain.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Melissa will collaborate with each person to choose which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That process can involve trying techniques from different approaches and adjusting as progress is made.

All sessions are provided by telehealth video only, so confirm session options before booking if you need a different format. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, allow for evening and weekend appointments, and reduce travel time. They also let people use shorter check-ins or keep cameras off when the focus is on breathing or mindfulness exercises.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Melissa help with?

She supports people with relationship issues, family conflict, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related concerns, and coping with life changes including midlife transition.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is direct and collaborative. She focuses on practical tools and honors each person’s individual story while working toward clear goals.

What is her professional background?

She is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor with three years of clinical experience supporting complex trauma, immigrant family dynamics, and interpersonal challenges.

Where is she licensed and based?

She holds a California LPCC credential and practices from California.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the US work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are arranged through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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