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Michelle Lumley

Michelle Lumley, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

Experienced BACP counsellor focused on midlife concerns

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  • Person-centred approach
  • Creative options available
  • Works with adults

About Michelle

Michelle Lumley is a BACP counsellor who has practised for three years. She offers a straightforward, person-centred approach and aims to make the first steps into counselling feel manageable. Michelle provides sessions to people aged 18 and over across the United Kingdom and works with a wide range of concerns including anxiety, depression, grief and relationship difficulties.

Her practice emphasises a trusted working relationship where listening comes first. Michelle uses a mix of humanistic and integrative elements so sessions can be tailored to each person. She often asks curious questions and uses creative tools such as art materials and reflective writing when helpful.

Michelle has experience supporting people with trauma and abuse, bereavement, self-harm, and long-term health issues among other concerns. She also lists ADHD, attachment issues and parenting challenges as areas she addresses. Sessions are reviewed regularly so the work can be adjusted to what’s useful for the individual.

She holds professional liability insurance and attends continuing professional development workshops. Michelle explains how she works within the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy framework during the first meeting and completes any initial paperwork together with the client.

Michelle describes her style as patient, kind and curious. People looking for a calm, exploratory space to talk through stress, life changes or career crossroads may find her approach suits them.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemADHD

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online counselling

Michelle draws on attachment-based and client-centred ways of working alongside elements of cognitive behavioural therapy. Attachment-based work focuses on patterns in relationships and helps people understand how past bonds affect present feelings and reactions. Client-centred work concentrates on listening and following the client's lead, offering a steady, non-judgemental space to talk. Cognitive behavioural elements look at practical thoughts and behaviours that can be adjusted to ease symptoms like anxiety or low mood.

Finding the right blend of methods is part of the therapeutic process. Michelle will work collaboratively to decide which approach or combination fits a person’s goals and preferences. That plan can change as the work progresses and as new priorities emerge.

The practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions around work and family life and reducing travel time. Online sessions can make it easier to attend during shift work or when regular travel is difficult. Please confirm the current session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Registered or accredited professionals often use online appointments to help therapy slot into everyday life more easily.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can she help me with?

She works with a broad range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and parenting concerns, trauma and abuse, ADHD, and coping with life changes.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

The approach is humanistic and person-centred with integrative elements, using listening, curious questioning and creative tools such as art or reflective writing when useful.

What is her background and experience?

Michelle has three years of counselling experience and has worked with people facing issues like bereavement, self-harm, sexual abuse and long-term health concerns.

Where is she based and what credential does she hold?

She is based in the United Kingdom and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, abbreviated as BACP.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are available to clients throughout the United Kingdom.

How are sessions arranged and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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