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Michelle (Sheli) Miller

Michelle (Sheli) Miller, LCSW

Therapist · California · 18+ years of experience

Therapist focused on steady, practical change

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  • Client-centered care
  • Skills for life
  • Midlife transition focus

About Michelle

Michelle (Sheli) Miller is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in California who uses a down-to-earth approach to support people through life’s challenges. She brings 18 years of experience and focuses on helping individuals handle stress, anxiety, grief, relationship questions, career shifts, and the upheaval that can come with midlife transitions.

Sheli learned much from her own life journey and from the people she’s met professionally. That background shaped a practical style that values listening, respect, and low judgment. Sessions aim to sort what comes from past experiences and what can be changed now, so people can feel steadier in everyday life.

Her clinical work is eclectic and draws on Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness, and Motivational Interviewing. She mixes these approaches to match each person’s needs and goals rather than using one fixed method.

She has worked in many settings, including domestic violence centers, hospitals, community agencies, youth organizations, and private practice. That variety informs a practical toolbox for coping skills, communication, and navigating big life changes like caregiving or loss.

People who choose Sheli can expect straightforward conversations, skill-building, and support aimed at clear next steps. She encourages collaboration so clients leave sessions with things they can try between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)EmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

18+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How these approaches translate to online therapy

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on creating an accepting space where the person’s experience guides the work. In practice this means the therapist listens closely, follows the client’s priorities, and helps clarify what matters most right now.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions. It offers concrete skills to test unhelpful thoughts and try different behaviors, which can help with anxiety, depression, and stress related to life transitions.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, teaches practical coping tools for strong emotions and relationship struggles. It includes skills for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and clearer communication.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals, preferences, and day-to-day needs rather than imposing a single path.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, for example by reducing travel time or allowing shorter check-ins during a work break. Confirm the specific session formats available before booking so you know what to expect. Many people find that remote sessions still allow for focused skill-building, regular progress checks, and practical tools to use between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist commonly address?

Sheli works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, and midlife transitions among many other concerns.

What is her general approach in sessions?

She uses a client-centered style that emphasizes listening and respect, and combines practical methods like CBT and DBT to build skills and coping strategies.

How long has she worked in the field?

She has 18 years of professional experience in a range of settings including hospitals, community agencies, domestic violence centers, youth organizations, and private practice.

What credential does she hold and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in California.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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