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Nicola Burgess

Nicola Burgess, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 7+ years of experience

Understanding, person-centred support for life changes

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  • Person-centred approach
  • Practical goal setting
  • Listening without judgement

About Nicola

Nicola Burgess is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who draws on person-centred ways of working to help people through difficult times. She has seven years' experience and maintains professional registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). Nicola aims to create a calm space where clients feel heard and respected.

She commonly supports people facing relationship difficulties and the fallout from traumatic experiences. This includes work around abusive or narcissistic relationships, separation and divorce, and broader family tensions. Nicola also helps with anxiety, depression, bipolar mood concerns, addictions, and the strain of caring roles that can lead to compassion fatigue.

Many clients come looking for help with grief and loss, whether from death, relationship endings, life transitions such as menopause, or other significant changes. Nicola listens for the particular shape of each loss and works with people to understand their feelings and find practical ways to carry on. Issues around self-esteem, body image, eating and sleeping difficulties, and struggles with motivation are also within her remit.

Her practice uses Client-Centred Therapy alongside Narrative Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy. Sessions focus on talking through what matters, exploring personal stories, and setting small achievable goals. Nicola offers a warm, non-judgemental approach and encourages people to take the first steps toward greater self-acceptance.

People are invited to discuss timing and days that suit them, as Nicola works weekdays and some early evenings. She supports those navigating midlife changes and other life shifts with practical conversation and steady support.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How these approaches work for online support

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on creating a trusting relationship where the client leads the conversation and feels genuinely heard. It suits people who need space to make sense of their feelings and regain confidence in themselves.

Narrative Therapy helps people separate themselves from problems by examining the stories they tell about their lives. It is useful for re-framing experiences such as loss, identity questions, and difficult relationship patterns.

Solution-Focused Therapy is short-term and goal-oriented, concentrating on small, achievable steps that move someone toward practical change. It is helpful when clients want clear targets and progress checks.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to concerns, try different ways of working, and agree a plan that matches the client’s needs and preferences. This can include blending elements from different approaches to suit the person.

If you are considering online work, confirm the session formats available before booking. Online options can make it easier to fit therapy around work and family life, reduce travel time, and offer quicker access at short notice. They can also support a shorter check-in when less time is available, or allow sessions without being on camera if that feels better for the client.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Nicola help with?

She works with people facing relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, anxiety, depression and a wide range of life challenges such as parenting strain, career stress, addiction and eating or sleeping difficulties.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her approach is person-centred and collaborative, emphasising being heard. She also uses Narrative Therapy to look at life stories and Solution-Focused Therapy to set practical short-term goals.

What is her professional background?

Nicola has seven years' counselling experience and holds a BSc(Hons) in Person-Centred Counselling from Derby University as noted in her profile.

Where is Nicola based and how is she registered?

She is based in the United Kingdom and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) as shown in her credentials.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people from other countries work with her?

She is not accepting international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are arranged through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Nicola?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's available days and times.

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