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Nicola Martin

Nicola Martin, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

Relationship-focused integrative counsellor

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Coping with change

About Nicola

Nicola Martin offers support for people facing stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, intimacy concerns and major life changes. She identifies patterns that make everyday tasks feel harder and helps clients find practical ways to cope. Nicola presents oneself clearly and gently, aiming to make therapy straightforward for someone under pressure.

She draws on integrative counselling, which means using ideas from several therapeutic models to meet each person's needs. In conversations she helps people understand where difficult feelings come from. She uses simple coping strategies to reduce overwhelm and manage panic or low mood.

Nicola has three years of professional experience and has worked in mental health settings. That background informs how she supports people who have anxiety, depression, or who are recovering from sexual assault. She focuses on creating a calm space to talk things through without judgement.

Sessions often include exploring relationship patterns, attachment wounds and repeated behaviours such as avoidance or control. Nicola also supports people dealing with grief, caregiver stress, illness such as cancer, separation and feelings of emptiness or shame. Her approach is practical and paced to each person's comfort.

People who choose Nicola typically work on identifying triggers, practising new ways to respond, and setting achievable steps between sessions. To begin, she asks questions to understand current struggles and then agrees a simple plan. This helps therapy feel manageable even when life feels busy.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCancerCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Nicola's approaches translate to online counselling

Nicola works from an integrative perspective, combining techniques from several evidence-based approaches to meet each person's needs. Integrative counselling allows her to use practical coping tools for anxiety and to explore relationship patterns and attachment issues in conversation. This makes it possible to tailor sessions around what is most helpful in day-to-day life.

She also focuses on trauma-informed listening for people recovering from abuse. This involves pacing the work, validating experiences, and using grounding or breathing exercises to manage strong emotions. These techniques help with panic, flashbacks and overwhelming feelings by offering short, practical ways to regain calm.

Finding the right approach is often a process. Nicola works collaboratively to identify what feels useful and adjusts methods as therapy progresses. She invites people to give feedback and helps set small, achievable goals so progress is clear and manageable.

If you are considering online work, please confirm the current session formats before booking as the biography does not list them explicitly. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, cut travel time and offer shorter check-ins when needed. It can also allow someone to speak from a comfortable setting while still focusing on practical coping and relationship work.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Nicola help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues and coping with life changes. Many clients also bring issues such as abandonment, caregiving stress, grief, infidelity and isolation.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Nicola uses an integrative counselling style, drawing on different approaches to suit the person. She focuses on plain language, practical coping strategies and understanding emotional patterns.

What is her professional background?

She has three years of experience and has worked in mental health settings where she supported people with anxiety, depression and survivors of sexual assault.

What credentials does she hold and where is she based?

She is listed with the BACP, which is shown as BACP, and she practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What should I do to start working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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