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Noelani Neroes

Noelani Neroes, LCSW

Therapist · Hawaii · 3+ years of experience

Compassionate LCSW for midlife transitions

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  • Affirming approach
  • Practical skills
  • Calm presence

About Noelani

Noelani Neroes is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) who helps people facing midlife questions and other major life stressors. She practices in Hawaii and focuses on clear, practical support for anxiety, stress, mood concerns, and identity-related issues. Noelani aims to create an affirming space for LGBTQ people and others seeking a steady, nonjudgmental presence.

Noelani draws on three years of clinical experience to guide conversations about self-worth, relationships, and coping after trauma. Sessions are straightforward and centered on the client's priorities. She listens first, then helps shape goals and small steps that fit everyday life.

Her work includes attention to mood disorders such as bipolar concerns, and to challenges like body image, substance use, and codependency. She also supports people dealing with caregiver strain, blended family tensions, and aging-related worries. Practical strategies are tailored to what the person is ready to try.

Noelani uses methods that focus on the person in front of her and on teaching skills you can use between sessions. She blends client-centered conversation with tools from cognitive behavioral and mindfulness approaches. Motivational interviewing helps when making tough choices or building new habits.

People who want a calm, affirming therapist to talk through midlife transitions, trauma recovery, or identity questions may find her approach helpful. To begin, prospective clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions based on her availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTTrauma and abuseSelf esteemBipolar disorder

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesDissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualityYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational Interviewing

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

Hawaii

Languages

English

How her approaches shape online care

Client-centered work focuses on the person and their concerns. It involves open listening and following the client's lead to identify what matters most and what small changes could help. This approach is useful for identity questions, life transitions, and building trust.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, teaches practical skills to notice and change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns. It often helps with anxiety, stress, and mood challenges by targeting specific thoughts and actions and practicing alternatives.

Mindfulness Therapy brings attention to the present moment and to bodily experience. Simple mindfulness practices can reduce reactivity and support emotion regulation during stressful times and midlife transitions.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with the client to pick methods that match their goals, preferences, and day-to-day life. Plans can change as needs evolve, and the client helps lead that decision-making.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm current session formats before booking since specific options are set by the practice. Online work can make scheduling easier, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time so therapy fits around work and family demands.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Noelani commonly help with?

Noelani supports people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self-esteem issues, and bipolar concerns. She also addresses identity questions and related life challenges.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is warm and person-centered, with an emphasis on listening and setting practical goals. She combines conversation with skill-building to help with day-to-day coping.

What is her background and experience?

Noelani has three years of clinical experience working with people on mood, identity, and trauma-related concerns. That experience informs a straightforward, supportive approach.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She holds a Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential, noted as HI LCSW, and practices in Hawaii.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How is pricing handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started if I want to work with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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