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Pam Bolarinho

Pam Bolarinho, LICSW

Therapist · Massachusetts · 20+ years of experience

Experienced social worker helping people through life changes

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  • Client-centered approach
  • Strength-based focus
  • Practical coping skills

About Pam

Pam Bolarinho, LICSW, brings twenty years of social work experience to people facing major life stress and change. She communicates in English and Portuguese and aims to make sessions direct and practical. Her background includes leadership in acute care and work with community partners.

People often come to Pam for help with anxiety, depression, bipolar symptoms, addiction, grief, relationship strain, and the stress of parenting or career transitions. She also supports concerns tied to trauma, attachment, body image, and blended family issues. Pam uses clear, goal-focused conversations to help people manage emotions and make decisions.

Pam trained at Bridgewater State University, where she earned a Master of Social Work and served as class representative. She then worked at the Massachusetts Department of Children and Families and ran clinical programs in inpatient psychiatric and acute medical settings. Her experience spans direct care, program development, and leadership roles.

In recent years she helped launch a co-response program with a local police department to provide behavioral health support in the community. That work involved partnering with hospitals, community agencies, and behavioral health organizations to reduce unnecessary emergency visits.

In sessions Pam takes a client-centered, strength-based stance and combines practical techniques from cognitive behavioral, narrative, motivational, and solution-focused approaches. She aims to help people build coping skills, clarify goals, and find better ways to respond to life stressors.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseBipolar disorderDepression

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Massachusetts

Languages

English, Portuguese

How therapeutic approaches fit into online care

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and following the person's lead so the person feels heard and understood; it is useful for people coping with stress, grief, and relationship strain. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions and uses practical exercises to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and change unhelpful habits. Motivational Interviewing helps people clarify their own reasons for change and can support challenges like addictions or making lifestyle shifts.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the person to choose methods that match current goals, needs, and preferences. This means trying techniques, reviewing what helps, and adjusting the plan together as progress is made.

Confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life by removing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins when needed, and offering appointments that work around work or caregiving schedules. It also lets people keep treatment going during transitions, while the therapist uses the chosen approaches to help build skills and tackle immediate challenges.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Pam commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar symptoms, addictions, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, body image concerns, and trauma-related problems.

How would you describe Pam's therapeutic style?

Her style is client-centered and strength-based with practical, goal-focused conversations that help people build coping skills and make decisions.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

Pam has over 20 years in social work including clinical roles, inpatient psychiatric leadership, and program development in acute medical settings.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She holds an MA and is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, and she practices out of Massachusetts.

Which languages are supported during sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Portuguese.

Can people from other countries work with her?

She is not accepting international clients at this time.

How does pricing and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to begin working with Pam?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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