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Paul Weeden

Paul Weeden, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 15+ years of experience

Experienced counsellor for life transitions

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  • Practical coping tools
  • Relaxation techniques
  • Routine and balance

About Paul

Paul Weeden is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people facing stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, career uncertainty and depression. He offers straightforward support for those wanting clearer direction or a better daily balance. He also works with people dealing with addiction, grief, intimacy issues and midlife transitions. Paul provides breathing and relaxation techniques to help with overwhelm and sleeping problems.

Paul has 15 years of professional experience and holds BACP registration, which is shown as BACP in his credentials. He aims to create an open, non-judgemental space where clients can talk through thoughts and feelings. Sessions focus on practical steps as well as exploring patterns that keep people stuck.

His approach draws on Client-Centred ways of working, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mindfulness practices alongside Psychodynamic and Solution-Focused ideas. That mix lets him blend short-term goal work with deeper reflection about past patterns. He often encourages changes to daily routines, creative interests and healthier work-life balance because lifestyle shifts can help recovery.

Paul has experience supporting parents and high-school aged young people with separation, routine adjustment and planning academic work. He emphasises learning practical coping tools and building sustainable habits. The tone in sessions is supportive and empowering, aimed at helping people take the next steps toward change.

If you want a down-to-earth counsellor who focuses on both skills and personal insight, Paul offers a straightforward, skills-based way to approach midlife change and other life challenges.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietySelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoaching

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and online support

Paul commonly uses Client-Centred Therapy, which focuses on the person’s own goals and pace while the counsellor offers empathic listening and reflection. This approach helps when someone needs space to make sense of feelings and decide what matters most to them.

He also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. CBT often includes practical exercises and small steps to shift unhelpful patterns, so it can help with anxiety, low mood and stress management.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paul treats this as a collaborative process and will discuss options with each person to match methods to their goals and preferences. That way sessions combine techniques and conversations that feel useful to the individual.

If you are considering online sessions, please confirm which formats are currently offered before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy day, reduce travel time and allow quicker check-ins between commitments. Different ways of meeting can also suit people who prefer shorter conversations or who want to use guided breathing and mindfulness exercises without leaving home.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns could I bring to sessions?

Paul works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, self-esteem, career difficulties, depression, addictions, grief and midlife concerns.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He uses a mix of client-centred listening, cognitive behavioural techniques and mindfulness alongside psychodynamic and solution-focused ideas to suit each person.

How much experience does he have?

He has 15 years of professional experience supporting people through life changes and emotional difficulties.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is listed with BACP and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

Which session formats are available?

The original profile did not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling according to the therapist's availability.

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