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Paula Appleton

Paula Appleton, BACP, NCPS

Therapist · United Kingdom · 14+ years of experience

Practical counselling for major life changes

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  • 14 years experience
  • BACP and NCPS
  • BSL and SSE support

About Paula

Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years of experience based in the United Kingdom. She works in line with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy ethical framework and holds BACP and NCPS credentials. Paula adapts her approach to suit each person she meets. She is able to communicate with Deaf and hard of hearing clients and uses Signed Supported English and British Sign Language at NVQ Level 6. Paula tends to keep sessions practical and straightforward. She helps people talk through stress, anxiety, depression and addictions. She also supports those facing grief, trauma and relationship difficulties. Midlife concerns and coping with life changes are part of her practice. Her work draws on a mix of approaches so sessions focus on what helps the individual most. She uses cognitive behavioural techniques to spot unhelpful patterns and alternative ways of responding. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ideas are used to help people live according to their values even when things are difficult. Paula also applies attachment-based thinking to understand how early relationships shape current patterns. Dialectical Behaviour Therapy skills are offered for managing strong emotions and staying calm in crisis moments. The emphasis is on learning simple tools that can be used between sessions. People who choose Paula often want clear, down-to-earth support. She encourages practical steps alongside reflective conversation. To begin, the site questionnaire and scheduling system are used to match and arrange an initial session.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom, United Kingdom

Languages

English, American Sign Language

How Paula uses different approaches online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice painful thoughts and feelings and still take steps that matter to them. It can be useful for stress, anxiety and big life transitions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions and teaches practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns. It is often used for anxiety, depression and sleeping or eating difficulties. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationships shape current expectations and emotional responses, helping people understand why they react in certain ways. Finding the right approach is part of the journey. Paula works collaboratively to choose methods that fit a person's goals and preferences. She may try different techniques and adapt them as sessions progress so the work stays relevant and useful. Please confirm the specific session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people continue work when they are managing long-term conditions, caring responsibilities or relocation. Registered or accredited professionals can use online sessions to share worksheets, teach skills in real time and keep steady contact between meetings without promising any particular technical setup.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can she help with?

She works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, trauma and relationship difficulties, as well as midlife and coping with life changes.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and adaptable, combining conversation with concrete tools from several approaches to help people manage emotions and change patterns.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 14 years of experience working with individuals across many presenting problems and life stages.

Which professional registrations does she hold and where is she based?

She holds BACP and NCPS credentials and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages can sessions be held in?

Sessions are offered in English and Paula can communicate using American Sign Language and Signed Supported English as well as British Sign Language at NVQ Level 6.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified here and may vary.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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