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Dr. Raoul Kaufman

Dr. Raoul Kaufman, LMFT

Therapist · California · 40+ years of experience

Experienced therapist focused on life transitions

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  • Grief and loss
  • Eating and body image
  • Parenting support

About Raoul

Dr. Raoul Kaufman is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 40 years of experience helping people facing grief, eating concerns, parenting strains, and low self-esteem. He also offers coaching for motivation and life direction. He writes treatment plans that reflect each person’s situation and goals.

He meets people with respect and sensitivity. Sessions focus on practical steps and clear discussion rather than jargon. He aims to help clients notice patterns, try different ways of responding, and build small routines that make daily life easier.

Dr. Kaufman draws on a mix of approaches when planning work with someone. He uses strategies from cognitive behavioral therapy to tackle unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. He pairs that with mindfulness to strengthen awareness and calm, and with psychodynamic ideas to understand long-standing relationship patterns.

Over four decades in practice he has supported people through aging-related concerns, caregiver stress, chronic health challenges, body image and attachment issues. He also addresses commitment struggles, communication problems, and feelings of emptiness or isolation.

Clients can expect a collaborative style that balances short-term goals and longer exploration. He explains choices and helps people pick steps that fit their lives. To begin, prospective clients use the site Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire before scheduling.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

GriefEating disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCoaching

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

40+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How his approaches translate to online work

Dr. Kaufman often uses cognitive behavioral therapy to help people spot and change unhelpful thoughts and habits. CBT breaks problems into smaller parts and tests new behaviors, which can be useful for eating concerns, low mood, and motivation issues. He also uses mindfulness therapy to build present-moment awareness and stress management through breathing and simple attention practices. Mindfulness can help with anxiety, chronic pain, and emotional reactivity. Psychodynamic ideas are used to look at long-standing relationship patterns and early influences that shape current reactions; this helps when people want deeper understanding of repeating difficulties.

Finding the right blend of approaches is a collaborative process. He will work with each person to identify goals and then try methods that fit those aims and the person's preferences. That may mean focusing on concrete skills at first and turning to longer exploration later, depending on what feels most helpful.

Because session formats are not specified in the biography, confirm current online options before booking. Online work can make therapy easier to fit into a busy life - it can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-in sessions when schedules are tight, and let people meet from wherever they are located in California. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises, worksheets, and mindfulness practices for remote sessions so therapeutic work continues between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He supports people dealing with grief, eating and body image issues, parenting challenges, low self-esteem, and life coaching needs. Additional areas include aging and caregiver stress, chronic illness and pain, attachment and communication problems, and feelings of emptiness.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He uses a practical and respectful approach that mixes short-term goals with deeper exploration. Sessions emphasize clear steps, noticing patterns, and practicing new responses between meetings.

How much experience does he have?

He has worked in the field for 40 years, bringing long-term clinical experience to common life challenges and transitions.

What are his credentials and where is he located?

He is an LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - practicing in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button on the site, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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