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Robert Winstanley

Robert Winstanley, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 9+ years of experience

Experienced BACP counsellor for life changes

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  • Person-centred focus
  • Practical steps
  • Trauma support

About Robert

Robert Winstanley is a BACP counsellor who has spent nine years working with people facing stress, anxiety and life changes. He draws on a person-centred stance to create a respectful and honest space where clients can talk about what matters to them. His practice aims to be practical and straightforward so people can make manageable changes in daily life.

Before moving into private practice he worked across the NHS and employee assistance programmes in England and Ireland. That work involved helping with depression, bereavement, work-related stress and relationship worries. He has experience supporting people from varied cultural and neurodiverse backgrounds.

Robert blends a Person-Centred approach with Egan’s Skilled Helper Model, tailoring the mix to each person. This means sessions can focus on emotional listening, alongside clear steps and goals to address current problems. He uses that combination to help with both day-to-day coping and longer-term change.

He also has particular experience in Critical Incident Stress Management debriefs, travelling to workplaces across the UK to support people after traumatic events. In those situations he aims to offer practical tools and space to process what happened.

Clients can expect short, plain talk about immediate concerns and straightforward options to try between sessions. Robert prioritises fairness, tolerance and choice, and works collaboratively to find what helps each person move forward.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work and outcomes

Robert uses Client-Centred Therapy to place the person’s experience at the centre of sessions, offering empathic listening and a non-judgemental space to talk through difficult feelings. This approach helps with issues like anxiety, depression and relationship concerns by focusing on what each individual needs.

He also uses Solution-Focused Therapy, which concentrates on small, practical steps and achievable goals. That makes it useful for career worries, stress management and when someone wants short-term, actionable change.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Robert will work with each client to decide which methods fit their goals, needs and personal preferences. He checks in as therapy progresses and adapts the mix of listening and practical techniques together with the client.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the current session options before booking so you know what formats are offered. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around work or family life and can allow for shorter check-ins when needed. It can also reduce travel and help maintain continuity when people move or travel. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists commonly offer online ways to work, and the right choice depends on practical needs and personal comfort rather than clinical effectiveness alone.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be brought to therapy?

He supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and career concerns, addictions, trauma, and issues such as ADHD, self-esteem and coping with life changes.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Robert uses a person-centred stance combined with practical goal-focused techniques. Sessions mix listening with steps and strategies you can try between meetings.

What experience does he have working with trauma?

He has nine years' experience and works with critical incident stress management debriefs, supporting people after traumatic workplace events across the UK.

What professional credentials does he hold and where is he based?

He is BACP accredited and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He accepts international clients; please check details and scheduling when arranging sessions.

How are sessions paid for and what about cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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