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Dr. Sharolyn Wallace

Dr. Sharolyn Wallace, LCSW

Therapist · Oklahoma · 31+ years of experience

Midlife perspective with steady guidance

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  • Family focus
  • Trauma support
  • Practical skills

About Sharolyn

Dr. Sharolyn Wallace is a licensed clinical social worker in Oklahoma who helps people facing family conflict, trauma and abuse, parenting challenges, low self-esteem, and major life changes. She emphasizes a calm, nonjudgmental atmosphere where people can speak frankly about what they are feeling. Dr. Wallace frames therapy as a practical process and encourages small steps toward clearer goals.

With 31 years of experience, she draws on long practice in social work to guide conversations about relationships, attachment, and difficult past events. Sessions focus on identifying patterns in family of origin, blended family issues, and the stresses that come with caregiving or first responder roles. She also addresses concerns related to abandonment, adoption and foster care, and commitment struggles.

Her approach is collaborative. She helps people name what they want to change, then works with them to try manageable strategies that fit day-to-day life. Practical communication skills, ways to reduce overwhelming guilt or shame, and tools for rebuilding self-worth are common parts of her work.

Dr. Wallace recognizes that coping with life transitions can look different for every person. She offers steady support through divorce and separation, disasters, and family problems. The aim is to help people regain direction, strengthen coping skills, and make choices that feel more aligned with their values.

People who meet with Dr. Wallace can expect straightforward guidance grounded in experience. She invites prospective clients to consider what they hope to change and to take the next step when ready.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityMidlife crisisMood disordersPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

31+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they fit online

Dr. Wallace uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to address trauma, family dynamics, and stress from life changes. One common approach focuses on building communication skills and behavioral strategies to improve relationships and reduce recurring conflict. This helps people practice different ways of speaking and setting boundaries in everyday situations.

Another approach centers on processing past hurts and traumatic events in manageable steps so emotions feel less overwhelming. That work aims to reduce guilt, shame, and the hold of painful memories while strengthening coping skills for daily life.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, needs, and preferences, and adjusts the plan as progress is made.

Confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when days are tight. Some formats may also be helpful when bandwidth is limited or when a client prefers a session without video. Ask about available session types when arranging your first meeting.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?

She helps people with family conflict, trauma and abuse, parenting struggles, self-esteem issues, and coping with life changes including divorce and caregiver stress.

How would you describe the therapeutic style?

The style is collaborative and down-to-earth, with an emphasis on creating a nonjudgmental space and working on practical strategies that fit daily life.

What level of experience does this therapist have?

Dr. Wallace brings 31 years of professional experience in social work and clinical settings to her practice.

What are the therapist's credentials and location?

She holds an LCSW credential and practices in Oklahoma.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with this therapist?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What is the process for getting started?

To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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