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Shelly Mentus

Shelly Mentus, LMHC

Therapist · Florida · 15+ years of experience

Compassionate counselor for life transitions

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  • Relationship focus
  • Practical strategies
  • 15 years experience

About Shelly

Shelly Mentus is a Florida licensed mental health counselor with more than 15 years of clinical experience. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, addiction concerns, relationship and intimacy struggles, grief, and parenting challenges. Shelly aims to create a calm, caring atmosphere where clients can begin to sort through life changes and find clearer direction.

She works with individuals and couples who want better communication and stronger emotional connection. Sessions focus on practical steps to manage emotions, improve trust, and reduce unhelpful patterns. Shelly emphasizes realistic skills people can use between meetings.

Shelly draws from several approaches, including cognitive behavioral techniques, acceptance and commitment ideas, dialectical behavior strategies, emotion-focused work, and client-centered listening. She adapts methods to each person’s goals rather than using a single fixed plan.

Her background includes long-term work with trauma, depression, anxiety, and recovery from substance and alcohol problems. She also supports people dealing with codependency, caregiver stress, body image issues, and career or life-purpose questions. This range makes her comfortable addressing both emotional pain and practical life problems.

People who choose Shelly can expect clear, direct conversations and steps to try between sessions. She helps clients set attainable goals and reviews progress regularly. Her goal is to help clients move from feeling stuck to making steady, manageable change.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCoaching

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

Florida

Languages

English

Approaches that inform online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then pick concrete values-based actions to move forward. It can help with anxiety, depression, and major life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and uses practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns; it is commonly used for anxiety, depression, and stress. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) centers on identifying and reshaping emotional responses in relationships to improve connection and communication.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what has or hasn't helped in the past. From that conversation, she will recommend techniques and check in often to adjust the plan so it fits the client's needs.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow focused check-ins during a break or between commitments. Some formats require less bandwidth or allow for shorter check-ins, which can help when schedules are tight. Licensed professionals can guide you on how to structure sessions so they work with your day-to-day routine rather than against it.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shelly commonly address?

Shelly works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, parenting struggles, and coping with life changes.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is direct and compassionate with an emphasis on practical skills, clearer communication, and emotional connection. Sessions blend active problem solving with supportive listening.

What kind of experience does she bring?

She has 15 years of clinical experience working with depression, trauma, domestic violence survivors, and substance-related problems, among other issues.

What credentials and region does she practice in?

Shelly holds the credential LMHC which stands for Licensed Mental Health Counselor and she practices in Florida.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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