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Simon Dowling

Simon Dowling, ACA

Therapist · Australia · 5+ years of experience

Midlife and life-direction counsellor

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationships
  • Self esteem

About Simon

Simon Dowling is an ACA counsellor with five years of professional practice in Australia. He helps people who are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure about the next step. He encourages straightforward conversation and aims to make starting therapy feel manageable for someone who might be anxious or hesitant.

He draws on more than two decades of informal experience supporting others, and uses that background to guide practical conversations about everyday problems. Sessions focus on clear goals such as reducing stress, easing anxiety, improving self-esteem, or working through relationship concerns. He also helps people navigate issues like midlife changes, motivation and concentration, and worries related to depression or ADHD.

Simon creates a calm place to talk where thoughts and feelings can be shared without judgment. He aims to break concerns into small, workable steps and to build on what already helps the person. Conversations often include checking practical routines, communication habits, and ways to manage unhelpful thinking.

He has worked with young people and couples in the past and adapts his approach to each person's needs. His style is direct but respectful, helping clients set realistic goals and track progress over time. He acknowledges the courage it takes to begin therapy and focuses on steady, achievable change.

If someone wants to explore how therapy might fit into their life, Simon encourages taking the first step and booking an initial session to discuss priorities and a possible plan.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCancerCommunication problemsDivorce and separationForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

Australia

Languages

English

How evidence-based techniques translate to online therapy

Simon uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change. One common approach targets anxious or unhelpful thinking by helping people notice patterns, test unhelpful thoughts, and try new behaviours; this can reduce worry and improve coping. Another useful approach emphasises building clearer communication and relationship skills, which helps with conflict, connection and day-to-day interactions.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Simon works with each person to identify what feels most useful and adjusts methods as progress is made and goals change. He encourages discussion about what works and what doesn’t so the plan can be tailored over time.

If you are considering online sessions, please confirm which formats are currently offered before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life by reducing travel time and allowing quicker check-ins between commitments. It can also suit people who prefer shorter or more frequent contacts, or who need flexible scheduling around work and family life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Simon address?

Simon works with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, self-esteem and depression, and he also supports people facing ADHD-related concentration issues and midlife questions.

What is his general approach in sessions?

He aims for open, non-judgemental conversation and practical steps. Sessions focus on setting small goals and reviewing what helps between meetings.

How much experience does he have?

Simon holds ACA credentialing and has five years of professional counselling experience, alongside over 20 years of informal supporting experience.

Where is he based and what credential does he hold?

He works in Australia and is credentialed with the Australian Counselling Association, shown as ACA.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He is not currently taking international clients.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a session with him?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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