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Dr. Thomas Kadela

Dr. Thomas Kadela, LCSW

Therapist · Illinois · 30+ years of experience

Experienced LCSW for midlife transition support

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  • 30 years experience
  • Direct practical help
  • Client chosen goals

About Thomas

Dr. Thomas Kadela offers steady, experienced support for people facing big midlife questions and life transitions. He draws on three decades of clinical work to help people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, sleep problems, depression, substance concerns, grief, or career and identity shifts. He writes plainly and aims to make sessions feel direct and useful rather than confusing or clinical.

His style treats the client as an equal partner. He invites people to say what they want from sessions - coaching, a sounding board, or a structured therapy plan - and then shapes the work around those goals. He emphasizes practical steps, homework between sessions when useful, and straightforward talk about goals and progress.

Thomas trained and practiced across inpatient, outpatient, and residential settings and has taught at both undergraduate and graduate levels. He brings experience from clinical leadership roles and work with veterans and military systems, while keeping the focus on the person in front of him. He is licensed as an LCSW in Illinois.

In sessions he blends techniques from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, cognitive behavioral approaches, dialectical behavior ideas, mindfulness, and client-centered work. He also uses targeted interventions for sleep problems, chronic pain, anger, and problem solving when those issues come up.

People who choose him can expect clear options, a chance to pick how therapy goes, and a focus on balancing daily life demands. He wants therapy to be useful, manageable, and aimed at the goals the client names.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseSleeping disordersAnger managementDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

Illinois

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches translate to online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them and then commit to actions that match their values. It is often used for stress, anxiety, and life transition work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and can be tailored to problems like depression, insomnia, or chronic pain.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then suggest one or a mix of methods and adjust as needed over time.

Confirm the current online session options before booking. When arranged, online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, reduce commute time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. Some approaches include homework between appointments, which can be reviewed in online meetings, and mindfulness or behavioral exercises can be practiced between sessions and discussed during video or phone time. Ask about the specific session formats offered at the time you schedule.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, sleep problems, addictions, grief, career or identity shifts, and midlife concerns.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He treats clients as partners and offers both coaching and structured therapy options, with practical tasks or homework when that approach is chosen.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has about 30 years of assessment and treatment experience, including roles in inpatient, outpatient, and residential programs and work in leadership and training.

What credential does he hold and where is he located?

He is an LCSW licensed in Illinois and practices there.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin therapy?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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