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Wai Kan

Wai Kan, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 9+ years of experience

Experienced counsellor using ACT and CBT

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  • Client-centred
  • Midlife transitions
  • Grief and loss

About Wai

Wai Kan is a counsellor who works from a client-centred perspective and draws on cognitive and acceptance-based methods. He encourages people to use their own strengths when facing stress, anxiety, depression and midlife changes. He frames therapy as a collaborative process and aims to make early sessions straightforward and focused.

He has nine years of professional experience in the United Kingdom and holds BACP accreditation. Over that time he has supported people dealing with grief and loss, relationship strains, sleeping difficulties and addictions. He also works with issues such as bipolar mood challenges, ADHD, and compassion fatigue.

In practical terms he blends talking therapy with evidence-informed techniques. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy helps identify unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy supports people to notice inner experience while committing to meaningful steps. Attachment-based ideas are used to look at how earlier relationships affect current connections.

Sessions are paced to match the person’s needs, with room for skills practice between meetings. Wai aims to help people manage anxiety, rebuild confidence and make clearer decisions about work and relationships. He encourages small, achievable changes alongside reflection.

People often come with complex life events such as bereavement, caregiving strain or major life transitions. The focus is practical and humane: clearer thinking, steadier emotions and better day-to-day coping. Prospective clients are invited to take a first step and see whether his way of working feels right for them.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesSleeping disordersDepression

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Wai commonly draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy in sessions. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, while encouraging actions that match what matters to them. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing different behaviours to reduce anxiety and low mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Wai treats this as a collaborative process where goals, day-to-day needs and personal preferences guide which methods are used. He will check in and adapt tools so they fit the person’s life and aims.

The practical benefits of online therapy include easier fitting of sessions into a busy week and fewer trips to attend meetings. Online sessions can make shorter check-ins or regular weekly work simpler to arrange. The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the current options before booking to ensure they match your needs.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can be brought to therapy?

Wai supports people with stress, anxiety and depression as well as relationship and intimacy-related issues. He also works with grief, addictions, parenting strain and several other life challenges listed in his profile.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a client-centred approach alongside Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. Sessions blend listening with practical strategies and skills to try between meetings.

What is his background and experience?

He has nine years of professional experience working in the United Kingdom with people facing a wide range of concerns from mood difficulties to relationship strain.

What credentials and location are listed?

He holds BACP accreditation and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and he does accept international clients.

What session formats are offered?

Session formats are not specified in the biography; please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How does payment or cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What is the first step to begin therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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