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Wendy Kesel

Wendy Kesel, LCSW-R

Therapist · New York · 26+ years of experience

Compassionate, steady support for life transitions

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  • 26 years experience
  • New York based
  • Practical strategies

About Wendy

Wendy Kesel is a licensed clinical social worker practicing in New York with 26 years of experience. She focuses on practical help for people facing stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns. Wendy aims to make the first step feel manageable and offers steady support as clients work toward small, meaningful changes.

Wendy creates an open, nonjudgmental space where feelings and thoughts can be talked through. She listens for what matters most to each person and helps set clear, achievable goals. Sessions tend to focus on real-life problems and usable tools rather than abstract theory.

Her work includes coping with life changes, parenting challenges, grief, trauma and mood concerns like depression and bipolar disorder. She also supports people dealing with ADHD, intimacy issues, anger, self-esteem and career questions. Additional areas she attends to include attachment issues, adoption and foster care concerns, caregiver stress, and body image.

Wendy draws on several approaches to tailor therapy to each person. She uses techniques from cognitive behavioral work to identify patterns, client-centered ways to follow a person’s lead, and acceptance-based strategies to manage difficult feelings. Dialectical skills and attachment-based ideas are used when appropriate.

People who want a calm, steady therapist and straightforward tools often find her approach helpful. She encourages small steps, practical practice between sessions, and ongoing conversation about what is and isn’t working. To begin, readers should use the site Start Therapy flow to match and schedule.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsParenting issuesCoping with life changesADHD

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

26+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting driven by them. It emphasizes values and small committed actions to create a more meaningful life, which can be useful for midlife changes and stress. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and changing behaviors. It offers concrete exercises and short homework tasks that adapt well to remote sessions and between-session practice.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, habits, and what feels most helpful. Together they decide which strategies to try, adjust as needed, and track progress over time so the plan fits the client’s needs and preferences.

Confirm the available session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, avoid travel time, and use short check-ins or longer appointments when needed. Practical benefits include doing exercises at home, sharing real-life examples during sessions, and keeping momentum between visits without promising a particular delivery method.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, parenting concerns, grief, trauma, and mood conditions such as depression and bipolar disorder.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is calm and nonjudgmental, focusing on clear goals and practical tools. Sessions emphasize talking through feelings and trying concrete strategies between meetings.

How much experience does she have?

Wendy has 26 years of professional work experience in clinical social work practice in New York.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She holds the LCSW-R credential and practices in New York.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with clients outside the United States?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions scheduled and what formats are available?

Confirm the current session formats before booking through the site. Use the Start Therapy flow to match and then schedule according to the therapist's listed session options.

How does pricing and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

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